When Lucio first saw Ashleigh, he was instantly smitten. The sun in her hair, her joyful smile, having fun with her friends… it was a great profile picture. Yes, Lucio and Ashleigh met on the apps. It was in the middle of COVID, and all dating was digital. After the world’s fastest swipe-rights, their first date was on: a romantic candlelit Zoom call. It combined the best of their cultural backgrounds, the famous Dutch efficiency and the New Zealand preference not to be murdered by strangers on a first date.
The call was a great success and not even that awkward. So next up, in classic 2020 style: the walk date. Picture it. A chilly November evening. Cosy Jordaan lights reflecting on the old canals. A bottle of red with two plastic cups. Two people completely forgetting the cold, discovering a shared love for music, art, and spotting good dogs.
Over the next four years, they did a lot more walking: From the windy streets of Wellington to Tokyo alleyways lit by vending machines, through forests in California and medieval cities in Malta. In between the walks, their relationship deepened. Ashleigh moved in with Lucio. The hobby room became a wardrobe. Houseplants died. Love blossomed.
Lucio proposed on Christmas Day, in front of both of their families, a big, beautiful chaos of surprise, happy tears, and lobster blinis. Now they’re getting married, with their loved ones joining them from New Zealand, the UK, the Netherlands, and beyond. They couldn’t feel luckier to have them all in one place.
Join Ashleigh and Lucio as they take their next step, this time, to the altar.
It is optional, but we’d love you to dress up. A semi-formal or festive dresscode, think of maxi-dresses for the ladies and suits for the men.
It’s October, so the weather might surprise us. Be sure to bring a cozy jacket or a stylish scarf—just in case the evening gets chilly. Better safe than shivery!
We’ve arranged a lovely discount with our wedding venue. There is the possibility to book a hotel room at a rate of € 215,- (at the coach house next to the estate) or at the estate for € 255,- a night (including breakfast).Want to stay over for the night? Let our weddingplanner Maria know in the RSVP below! Prefer to stay in the area around Arnhem? There are plenty of hotel options nearby!
Your presence at our wedding is the greatest gift we could ask for, and we truly appreciate the effort it takes to celebrate with us. While your love and support are more than enough, for those who wish to contribute, a contribution to our honeymoon is more than welcome!
Cadeautip
Ons grootste cadeau is dat we samen met jullie de liefde gaan vieren. Mocht je daar iets aan toe willen voegen, dan is een bijdrage aan onze huwelijksreis welkom.
RSVP wedding Ashleigh & Lucio